Your love life has been unstable for many years. Again this is simple to understand. For, as you change (and you are changing constantly and dramatically), your affections change.
Lovers who attracted you in one mood don’t attract you in another. This is hard on you and on your lover. One minute there is passionate love and pledges of eternal fidelity and the next there is repulsion, anger and revulsion.
It’s hard for your beloved to make any kind of long-range plan under such circumstances – hard for you as well.
The truth is, it’s even hard to make short-term plans. A weekend date might or might not happen. An outing to the park can be a major soap opera.
So this is not a year for marriage or long-term commitment. More a year for short-term love affairs that suit your whims at a given time.
These are the kinds of things that we see happening this year. The opportunities are plentiful. There is happiness and little personal commitment in them. You can have love and intimacy and be totally free. An Aquarian heaven.
Your greatest personal need this year is freedom and experimentation. Even those of you who are older and presumably ‘more settled’ are feeling this way. Age has nothing to do with it. Your social life will have to mould itself along these lines.
The ideal serious relationship this year would be with someone who has the same needs as you do and who is willing to give freedom as well as take it. This is a strong possibility.
You will be dating much this year, attending parties and having many entertainments. You look better than you have in many years and you are attracting others in droves.
But, as we mentioned, you aren’t yet sure of what you want – and you tend to attract people who are that way too.
The marriage of a parent or parental figure in your life is in crisis. Very stormy. The marriage of friends and children likewise. The marriage of siblings is status quo, and a single sibling has an important marriage opportunity from February 2nd to June 6th.
A spiritual mentor or guru type – someone involved in your spiritual life – could marry this year or be involved in a significant relationship. Those of you with grandchildren of marriageable age need patience, there’s nothing serious on the horizon. If they are married the marriage is in crisis.